Last weekend this thought became prominent in my thoughts. I have a few friends whose homes always seem put together. Now these women are mothers and always busy in many ways. I always felt bad about the fact that no matter how hard I’ve tried to balance my house always looks like a tornado blew through. Well I learned last weekend that at least three of these friends have someone come into their house to help with cleaning. I am so grateful that my friends are able to relieve that stress in their lives by acquiring help, but it wasn’t fair of me to put myself down with comparing to my friends. We don’t always see the full picture, so don’t compare yourself instead focus on the ways you are succeeding.